I'll use a similar example to the example in the book. If I was to go shopping with someone and they tried something on and ask for my opinion do I: 1)Be honest 2)Be nice/don't hurt their feelings. Both of these are good and its hard to pick between the two. In most situations I aim to be honest. If this was a best friend that I was communicating with I would be honest because we share that mutual understanding and they understand that my intention is to be honest and not rude. If I was just a friend but we're not super close or even a stranger the answer might be a little different because they might not share that same understanding as me. If it was a someone not close I would aim to be honest but sprinkle it a bit like, "I personally don't think its cute but if you like it, everyone dresses in their own way."
Learning to pick what good you chose to communicate comes with age and experience I feel. It has to do with your morals. Even though both can be looked at as good, you have to chose what you feel is right. Your morals and experiences will direct you in which choice of good to pick.
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